Self Development

The problem started when I came back home from NYC. I was there on a large search engine project. Unfortunately, I had to leave the project prematurely because my ex-wife was always crying to me on the telephone. She said that she and the kids needed me. She missed being in my arms and doing the things that normal couples do.

Being a fool that I am, I convinced my client that I needed to come home because my family needed me. At that moment, I thought I was making the right decision. Somehow I had convinced them that I can do all of my SEO work from home. When I left my client’s office that day, a feeling in my stomach was telling me that my client wasn’t going to pay me to work from home. Nevertheless, I had no regrets about driving back home to Florida.

Little did I know that when I came got home, it was going to be a completely different story. My ex-wife had other plans for me.

During the time when I was away, she had been contacting other guys through myspace. She was setting herself up to be their girlfriend. Yes, we are married, and she was doing this behind my back. I found out because of her constant phone calls to multiple men every single night. She insisted that they were “just friends”. Fellas, never believed a woman when she tells tell you that “he is just a friend”. Personally, I think most women do this because they need a security blanket or a spare tire.

In my case, she did it because she was not happy with our marriage and she did not want to work anything out. She was merely thinking about herself and not the kids. When a woman like my ex-wife is unhappy, she will stop at nothing to fulfill her fantasies of being with many men. Yes, she has repeated her unhappiness to me many times and I have done much to address it with her. I even sought outside help for us, but she resisted.